I really do not like talking about negative subjects but this is on my mind so I have got to say something.....and I think this blog effects MANY people so I apologize in advance for going here...but it needs to be said! I was having a conversation with a BAB (see the blogs below for what this is :) and she was telling me that since she started to lose weight, people are starting to say things to her that are hurtful like: "since you lost weight, you can't talk to anybody." People are constantly making little snide remarks to her about doing the figure show and although she says it does not bother her, it bothers me! I am so sick and tired of HATERS! Its just a damn shame that people can not be HAPPY for others discipline and dedication. Instead they slander, hurt and try to damage others in anyway they can. Haters are just really unhappy, negative and miserable people and I truly pity them!
What the haters don't realize is... as long as they hate and pray that others do not succeed (which they do often), they will NEVER succeed at anything they do. When you do evil and wish evil upon others, it comes right back to you and slaps you in the face 10 fold. So, instead of hating on others, lets all try to lift each other up and support each other. This crabs in a barrel mentality is ridiculous!
Remember this, your haters are your biggest fans. I bet they go to your FB page the most to see what you are doing...lol!! Let them motivate you to be even GREATER! And the sad truth is, if you have no haters, you are not doing much!! So as Jill Scott says: "hate on me haters"....
I had to get that out!! Whew, I feel so much better now!
Stay Fit Y'all!
Dre
Enjoy the video below...lol. Just copy and paste the link below to your browser! Jill is the TRUTH!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qw3Z8Oa7E3Y
1 comment:
Such the mama bear, o.k. being that I'm older I guess that make you the younger sister bear :)
The very first time I heard Jill's song I knew this would be my theme song!! I've alwas had people trying to tear me down for one thing or another when I got my masters, when I got promoted to Asst. Director, and yes when I made a change in my life and started to loose weight~ but really to HELL with them everyone needs a job right well hatin' is a haters job and I plan to keep 'em employed!!! I figure if I got 20 haters it's time to step up my game and get 20 more!! Believe me I working at hiring a few more!! As I've told you ~ those who are for you are for you! Thanks for always being all there for me. Love ya girlie
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